Category Archives: Anger

“Apologizing First” Works For Confronting Defensive Family Members As Well As Business Associates

“I use this because I find it very hard to say what I need to say when I know someone is wrong.”   G. subscribed to my minicourse, Integrity: Use It Or Lose It (www.TheIntegrityCourse.com); the beginning of this conversation … Continue reading

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Hate Confrontation? Seven Steps To De-escalate A Tricky Situation — With A Customer, A Colleague Or Even Your Boss

You may hate confrontation. Someone raising his or her voice may make you want to run and hide. And it certainly seems safer to freeze into nothing and wait till the situation burns itself out. But sometimes that's just not … Continue reading

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Coaching: Emotional Intelligence and Brain Hijacking

Brain-hijacking almost cost Evelyn her job. After several employees resigned because of her behavior, Evelyn’s manager had insisted

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